Insecure.

that's the right term to describe my SIL. She would copy everything I do, from parties to scrapbooking and even rearing my son. She'll find ways to tell my in-laws negative things about me, which were actually FALSE. I found a site wherein it tackled the real meaning of INSECURITY. All the signs were there and she fits the characteristics to a T. "If the shoe fits" may sound cliche' but IT IS. She's the perfect example of a leech. Those creatures who suck blood. Sucking As!@#$%^ was never in my vocabulary. I don't want to PLEASE people who wants everything to be about them. What they say, feel and think will always be right. So now, every time we're invited to attend parties in their place, I would tell my husband not to stay long as I can't bear to stomach the long hours of worshipping and the likes. She's a pretentious, conniving b@#$h.

I'm Pissed.

Just recently, we found out that SIL's pregnant and due to give birth early next year. Since, my MIL's fond of volunteering OUR stuff, mind you it's OURS meaning she doesn't have RIGHTS to those items as my parents, friends or us (my husband and I) bought them. Anyways, when they found out that it was a boy, she started asking for my son's things. I can still recall, she would tell us not to give them away so we can use them for our next baby. But, lo and behold, she was thinking of giving it to SIL! The nerve! I'm not really a selfish person BUT with people like them, always meddling or saying negative comments to my toddler, doesn't seem appropriate to extend a helping hand. Neither she nor my BIL gave my son expensive toys or clothes. Don't think I'm materialistic, but a simple toy or those character shirts will make my boy happy. They don't even let my son choose what he wants. It's always WHAT THEY WANT! Believe me, when that baby comes out, I won't let them borrow my baby's things, toys and even clothes. Call me SELFISH - well, I AM!