Everytime...

they're going to have a party or family gathering, hubby's relatives won't let the day pass without saying " your son doesn't know us cuz you're not bringing him here every day." My son's not a snob. He's just SHY like his dad. He doesn't want to be forced into something he's not comfortable in doing. If he doesn't kiss or bless their hand, it's because he needs to have a "warm-up" time like 30 mins or so from the minute we arrived before he talks, plays or socializes. THAT they don't understand. Some people are just plain NARROW-MINDED. Even MIL will say that "he's like that with us" or " we don't feel we're grandparents". Yes, they won't feel grandparents because everytime he's with them, she's always looking for something bad to comment on. She can't even buy a nice toy for my him. She wants WHAT she likes. Like a plastic toy gun she bought in bargain stores. GUN?! C'mon!!!!! Sometimes, she would ask if he likes sodas or junk foods. AND if I say NO she would react violently. Exclaiming " you're depriving of your son the things a normal child do or eat." Yeah, junk foods and candies are part of that!!!! How can someone be that selfish?!!